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Back in Colorado 14 Mar 2011 | 06:33 am
Holy Guacamole has life been crazy lately! My partner Q and I moved back to Colorado, a few months earlier than originally planned due to Q’s new job, and it is fucking fantabulous…at least the six d...
The Ridiculousness of the Love Industry 17 Feb 2011 | 06:30 am
Now that Valentine’s Day has come and gone, and that I’m back in the scheme of things (which includes planning for our wedding/celebration of love this October), I have to say that I’m sick and tired ...
A Gift to My Primary 8 Feb 2011 | 01:46 am
As I am one of my own primary partners (I mean, I contribute a lot of time, energy and resources to myself, right?), I’ve bought myself a bouquet of flowers, and a red vase that I love. I hate the co...
Day 19: Someone That Pesters Your Mind 7 Feb 2011 | 04:39 am
This is day 19 in my “30 Days of Letters” endeavor. It is supposed to be written to someone who “pesters my mind,” either in a good way or a bad way. I assume they don’t mean music that gets stuck in ...
When Work Is Emotional 5 Feb 2011 | 08:17 am
I love my job. A lot. There are some days I like it less. It is often entirely stressful, it can be frustrating, and working in the field of sex education often leads to me being questioned as an edu...
Still Alive! 31 Jan 2011 | 07:19 pm
Hey Folks - I’ve been in Denver the last week or so, very busy (teaching four classes and co-hosting a kinky girls sleepover within four days!), but I am still alive, and will be writing more soon. T...
Map of Tasmania: Thoughts on Pubic Positivity 20 Jan 2011 | 01:57 am
I like Amanda Palmer quite often. I’m still out on how I feel about her Evelyn Evelyn project, which deals with a faux discovered set of coinjoined twins (hence my issue with the project). However, us...
Being Emotional 18 Jan 2011 | 09:47 am
One of the most hurtful things F told me when we were together was that I was “always in my head, and never in my heart.” She’d follow this with ending a conversation, having sex with someone else aga...
Sex Game Review: Dirty Minds 15 Jan 2011 | 03:08 am
So, Q and I like to play games. I know the kind you’re thinking, but we also really enjoy playing good ol’ board games like Scrabble, and fun more new fangled games like Apples to Apples. Ergo, when a...
Day 18: The Person I Wish I Could Be 14 Jan 2011 | 05:39 am
This is day 18 in my “30 Days of Letters” endeavor. It is supposed to be written to “The Person I Wish I Could Be.” This is a hard one, because I am who I am, and am pretty ok with that for the most p...
