
 
		
 
		 
		This morning I realized it's been 15 months since my last blog post. 
As I type these words I have to smile and ask myself; is this something like blogger confession? 
Is this the part where I say forgive me Blog Land for I have been neglectful; it's been 15 months since my last post.
Perhaps so.
While I was away life was chock-full of  adventures.  Why I haven't memorialized them here; I have no idea.
I've missed it though.
That I must confess.
So check back soon as I reflect on the pristine beauty that is Maine.
 
		My precious niece turned 16 this past month.
To celebrate her special day my Mom and I took her and her BFF to the beach for a little girl time.
Here's a few shots of those beautiful girls enjoying Gulf Shores and some of what is has to offer.
Happy Birthday Mc - you are my sunshine!
 
		
 
		Yesterday's post got me thinking about bucket lists and the hopes and dreams I've had over time. 
Some are reasonable; some probably not so much.
A couple simply aren't happening.
Even so, they have been and are mine to reflect on and strive for. 
So here goes, in no particular order (other than the first four)...
My Bucket List now and from days gone past... 
**Completed items in bold.
Marry my soul mate & the love of my life.
Travel to Italy.
Live at the beach.
Tour the US east coast by car.
Visit New York City.
Own & operate a Bed & Breakfast.
Ride in a hot air balloon.
Take my parents on a trip they'll love.
Be the best Mimi there can be.
Live in a great apartment.
Travel to all 50 United States.
Visit the wine country.
Become a gourmet cook.
Snorkel.
Own our dream home.
See the Vatican.
See a game at Fenway Park.
Remodel and design our house to fit us just right.
See a broadway show.
Expose the young people in my life to as much travel, culture and diversity as I can.
Be a prayer warrior.
Own a convertible.
Visit San Francisco.
Obtain and maintain a healthy weight.
Have a tree house.
Ride through Central Park in a horse drawn carriage.
Visit Savannah.
Become a philanthropist.
Go sailing.
Swim in a natural body of water complete with water fall.
Create a blog.
Visit New Orleans.
Walk barefoot on the beach.
Be a mentor.
Have a lake house.
Travel to Greece.
Own a boat.
Plant a tree to celebrate the birth of a child.
Attend the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.
Create holiday traditions.
See the Golden Gate Bridge.
Travel to France.
Hang out with my Mom in Playa.
Travel to Easter Island.
Travel to Mexico.
Become proficient at yoga.
See the Eagles in concert.
Have a house with a fountain in the back yard.
Attend worship services on a regular basis.
See Barbra Striesand in concert.
Have a Maltese.
Buy myself a Rolex before I'm 40. (I failed at this one!)
Visit the carribean islands (St Croix, St Thomas & St Maarten).
Visit Seattle.
Start the business of my dreams and it be successful.
See George Strait in concert.
Become proficient at floral design.
Be debt free.
See KISS in concert.
Learn to speak a 2nd language.
Visit Vancouver.
See the French Riviera.
Visit Maine.
Fly first class on an international flight.
See Springsteen in concert.
Become proficient at furniture refinishing.
See the Amalfi Coast.
Visit Boston.
Visit the Florida Keys.
Spend time in the mountains.
Be a volunteer.
Swim with the dolphins.
Knit a scarf.
Have a successful career.
See a game at Yankee Stadium.
And there it is - as of today. 
It and I have changed over the years.
One thing seems constant though; my middle name has always been go-go-go!
There's a great big world out there and I want to see and experience as much of it as I can during my God-given time on this earth.
Do you have a list? 
If not, I suggest you make one.
Remembering the things I've checked off and contemplating those that may someday be brings a smile to my heart and reminds me; it's a beautiful life.
 
		 
		Oh my, look at these beautiful colors.
The Señor and I visited a nearby Mexican grocery store over the weekend. I absolutely love their produce section.  Although I didn't purchase anything exotic I thought the colors of what I did buy were gorgeous when I piled them all together in my fruit bowl.
All that citrus and spice...makes your mouth pucker doesn't it!
I hope you are enjoying the colors of the season as much as I am.
Celebrate the coming of Spring!
 
		I fell off the wagon over the holidays but I'm crawling back on. 
Right before Thanksgiving I was down 12.9 pounds. 
Unfortunately between the holidays and stressful days I have put some of that back on (dang my love of cornbread dressing, hoe cakes and brownies!). 
So, here we go again; I'm dragging myself up and back on that wagon.
Next stop:  the gym.
 
		
 
		I have MS.  It's a fact of life.  Birds sing.  Bees sting.  I have MS.
 
		 Knitting intrigues me.  I have a genuine desire to become a knitter.  Hand knit items are so personal and rustic; so earthy.  Each stitch seems to be filled with love.
Knitting intrigues me.  I have a genuine desire to become a knitter.  Hand knit items are so personal and rustic; so earthy.  Each stitch seems to be filled with love.
 
		Welcome 2013 - Full Of Possibility.
 In Memory...
Well, it's almost that time.  Time to close out this year and welcome a new one.
The time of year when some folks reflect back on the previous three-hundred-sixty-five days with pleasure,  some with disappointment and then there are some who don't give it much thought at all.
Some set resolutions.
Resolution...to resolve.
Do you set resolutions?
I can honestly say I don't recall ever setting one.
Probably because I know me and I know that I am more likely than not to break it.
What is it about a new year that causes one to make resolutions?
Better yet, what is it about a new year that causes some to acutely analyze the previous 365 days?
We sure don't put that much stock in a week or a month.
So why do we put so much focus on a year?   
I don't have the answer but for whatever reason the summation of 365 days gets a lot of attention from some people.
I once had a dear friend who told me each year on December 31st that the new year had to be better than the last because the last was the worst year of her life.
I never understood her fascination with those cumulative days - the year.
Each new year was a daunting thing to her - so daunting that one January day she took her own life.
A few days from now will mark the 23rd anniversary of her passing.  There were no words then and are no words now to describe the devastation brought on by her actions.
She had an illness...
and as her illness progressed she became unable to see past each day... 
and although there had been many happy days in her past she could no longer see them in the rear view mirror...
she saw no joy in yesterday and no hope in tomorrow...
and no matter how hard we tried, we couldn't help her to see.
I don't know for sure but I'd say there aren't many days that slip by me that I don't think of her.  And it might sound odd but when I do think of her it is no longer with sadness for my rear view mirror does work and I can clearly see our happy days.  I also clearly see tomorrow and know that there is a great big world out there just waiting for me.
Yes, a new year is on the horizon...
there will be no resolutions from me...
there will also be no looking back regretting what might have been... 
Her memory reminds me to live my life one day at a time...
I will say my prayers and try to make each day the best it can be...
and if its not...
there will be tomorrow...
clear and full of possibility.
 
		
 
		
 
		I'm still plugging along.  Today is "weigh day".  I'm down 12.9 pounds.  Yep, it's still slow, slow, slow.  Oh well, at least the number is going down rather than up!  I must confess that I haven't made it to the gym yet.  Hopefully soon.  This craft bug I have seems to be taking up all my time!
I've done a couple of more jewelry frames since my last post.  Both are painted with Annie Sloan chalk paint and distressed to hopefully look "shabby chic".  Both currently appear in my Etsy shop but I plan to show them at a craft fair I am participating in on November 10th if they don't sale before.  I am excited about the craft fair.  I've never done anything like that and I think it sounds fun (although it also sounds like a lot of work!).
This frame is painted what Annie Sloan calls Emperor's Silk.  The original frame had some very light blue in it and can be seen in some of the distressed areas.  It really gives it a cool look.  I left the back of these frames open to allow the wall paint to show through.
 
		I came across another old frame and decided it needed to be repurposed.  Wallah!
 
		As I mentioned I've been on this craft kick. 
I discovered the joy of making fabric covered buttons and have been trying out all kinds of methods for using them. 
So far I've made push pins, magnets and hair pins!  I have this thing for pretty fabrics, papers, crayons, and markers - Anything colorful and fun - so this fits in perfectly!
Here's a few pics of a few of my creations!  You can also see them in my Etsy shop.  I think they would make really fun little every day gifts or stocking stuffers.
 
		The last few weeks I've been feeling, for lack of a better word, crafty.  Or maybe a better way of putting is that I've been needing a creative outlet.
In an effort to satisfy my creative bug I dug out some fall flowers from my foliage stash and designed a (if you could call it that!) a fall arrangement (see previous post!).  That didn't do the trick.
Something about the fall always seems to bring out this need in me to go junk shopping.  I know, I know. I'm weird like that.  Anyway, the Señor was out of town so I put on some comfortable (i.e. ugly) shoes and hit the local junk store circuit.  And yes siree, some treasures were found!
I'm mad at myself because I didn't take any before pictures but the short of it is I bought a filthy old beat up antique frame and turned it in to a pretty jewelry frame.  (Of course, pretty is in the eye of the beholder!)
Ta Da!
 
		
 
		I love discovering yummy new food choices; especially when they are both yummy and healthy.
My latest discovery is spaghetti squash.  I have always heard how good (and good for you) it is but was intimidated by its appearance.  This past week I decided it was time to broaden my horizons and  give it a shot.  By the time it was roasted and on my plate I felt like a very silly girl.  It is quiet simply one of the quickest and easiest dishes I have ever prepared.  This particular recipe comes to us complements of www.marthastewart.com.
Spaghetti Squash With Garlic
Prep Time 15 Minutes     
Total Time 1 hour, 15 minutes
Yields 4 servings
Ingredients
2 spaghetti squash (2 pounds each)
2 tablespoons olive oil
2 cloves garlic, slivered
Coarse salt and ground pepper
Directions
1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees. With a fork prick squash several places.  Place on a rimmed baking sheet, bake until soft to the touch, about 1 hour.
2. When cool enough to handle, halve squash crosswise. Scoop out seeds; discard.  Scrape flesh into strands.
3. In a large skillet, heat oil over low heat.  Add garlic; cook until fragrant and just starting to color, about 4 minutes.  Add squash; season with salt and pepper.  Cook, tossing frequently,  until squash is very hot, about 5 minutes.
Cook's Note - Holding squash half over a wide bowl, use a fork to scrape the flesh into long, thin strands.
Salute!
