for the ladies: a piece of beauty advice 15 Aug 2013 | 04:34 am

Here’s a beauty tip from someone who’s in the know, especially for you ladies in your 20′s.  (Y’all are so young and beautiful, and don’t even know it.)  When you go out into the sun, use sunscreen. A...

Admitting the truth… 28 Jun 2013 | 06:15 am

Hello, my name is Bb and I’m a happy wife. And look, there’s a place for other women like me, the Happy Wives Club. Gonna check it out and see what’s over there…

What every Girl Should Know IV: He Can’t Read Your Mind 26 Jun 2013 | 08:17 am

After we’d dated a while, BbMan and I had developed a pretty good process of give and take in our every day communication. By time we’d got married, I thought we were home free and would face very lit...

Femininity Field Report #10: The Long and Short of It 19 Jun 2013 | 07:56 am

Over the last year and a half I’ve been working on a really long femininity project: I grew out my hair. This was a big concession to the project because I’ve never specifically groomed my hair to cul...

He’s not protective: does that mean he doesn’t care? 17 Jun 2013 | 08:37 am

I’ve spent enough time in the gendersphere to know one thing for certain: any assumption I may have about men could be completely wrong. So here’s my question: if a man is not protective towards his l...

What Every Girl Should Know III 13 Jun 2013 | 05:21 am

So once I had established a set of guidelines to help me with communication, how did it work out when I started to apply it? Honestly…it was hard as hell.  Let me frame this. I was a nice girl. I … Co...

What Every Girl Should Know II 9 Jun 2013 | 11:03 am

Back in the comment section of the What Every Girl Should Know post, the audacious amateur blogger asked: So what was it about Mr. Bbman that …. was right. Did you learn to communicate better or did y...

Sharp Observations 7 Jun 2013 | 09:05 am

Danny reposted this from way back. Something to consider: “I went on to tell the guy that these four qualities (social dominance, strength, and the ability to protect and provide) ALWAYS build attract...

“Just…listen…!” 6 Jun 2013 | 08:24 pm

verily: a new way for women’s magazines 4 Jun 2013 | 07:38 pm

I grew up on a steady diet of magazines for women, starting as a middle-schooler reading Seventeen magazine. In high school, I moved on to reading Mademoiselle (which no longer exists), Glamour, Vogue...